Same character exhibited differently
Same poles repel each other.
If A is resisting B, or fighting, or in discord with B then we always say that both are opposite poles.
Is it TRUE OR FALSE?
It is false. The truth is they are the same poles. That is why they repel each other.
A is actively resisting B, while B is passively resisting.
One’s resistance is outward. The other’s resistance is inward – mental.
Mentally both are in the same poles. Repulsion is a state of mind, by which both don’t know why they are against each other.
Normally we sympathize with B, thinking that B is a victim and A is the persecutor.
They are mentally in the same state or resistance, and both of them are doing it without their knowing.
Take the opposite stance
One has to shift their stance and be in the opposite pole to attract him.
Who has to do that? It is the one who wants peace and harmony. When B wants harmony, he has to understand that,
The opposite pole of ANGER is FORGIVENESS.
The opposite pole of CRITICISM is PRAISE.
The opposite pole of RESISTANCE is ADJUST.
The opposite pole of PRIDE is THANKS (love).
The opposite pole of ARROGANCE is HUMILITY.
How to achieve the mental state for harmony?
BOW and CONCEDE to ADJUST and FORGIVE to PRAISE and THANK.
The mental state of thanks and forgiveness is the only way to be in the opposite pole to have harmony with the other person.There is no other route.
Keep the different parts of the mind TOGETHER and chant “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST PRAISE FORGIVE THANKS”.
Additionally, write “TOGETHER OIL HELP HOLE” to overcome the repulsion (OIL removes friction, while HOLE attracts).
When a person is resisting you…
If you watch your thoughts on a daily basis, you will understand that your thoughts – your mental state – are against the person who is disharmonious with you.
Every thought against the person, keeps you in the same plane – same pole – and you will never achieve what you want as long as you are in this state.
Regular introspection will help you find this.
When there is a stream of thoughts bombarding, counter them or stop the flow with “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST PRAISE FORGIVE THANKS”.
Once you decided to be in the opposite pole, you need not pathetically look for a change in the opposite person.
When change happens within you, when you have shifted yourself to the opposite pole 100%, then he will change (automatically). Till such time, he will keep on reminding you that you are in the same pole as he is.
Life is fundamentally management of Mind. It gives us lessons always.
The Power Life Symbol LOVE (66) will direct your state of mind towards a state of LOVE.
Read the blog, “Inside disturbance = Outside disturbance”
Whatever is happening outside, you should not bring it inside
You should observe your mind as a third person. How to do that?
Let us say, you are going to meet a person for an important matter.
Let us assume that the scheduled meeting is at 4.30 pm.
What will you do between 3.30 and 4.30 pm?
Whatever you want to discuss in the meeting, will get repeated in your mind –“I should do this; I should not say that” and so on.
However, at the meeting you will be simply become blank if you are not prepared for the meeting.
Interestingly, whether you get yourself prepared or not prepared, the result will be the same.
At 5.30 pm you will come out of the meeting.
After coming out, you will be thinking about the meeting that took place between 4.30 t0 5.30 p.m. You don’t do this too.
The principle is, whatever is outside do not bring it inside and whatever is inside do not take it outside.
What do you mean by “Whatever is inside do not take it outside”?
Whatever you have inside you have no control. If any two persons are quarrelling, we also get angry.
You observe simply whatever is happening outside. After a few seconds it will go off (from the mind).
When you are angry, you are holding on to that anger and that is why it is staying with you. We must learn how to observe that too.
Instead of observing if we react then it becomes our karma
Everything is the drama of the mind.
We have understood everything wrongly. There is nothing called as external factors.
We have to go inside our mind. With your own mind you are entering into the others’ territory.
We have to try to do these. For that the switch words TOGETHER DIVINE will work.
You will become level-headed
When you keep on chanting TOGETHER DIVINE, you will be balanced and level-headed.
Then only the mind will be under our control.
Why the mind is not in control?
One part of the mind wants to be in harmony and other part of the mind wants to be in conflict.
If you go to a movie we want everything in that movie like love, comedy, action etc.
Whatever you except in the movie you except the same in life also. But unfortunately when we want comedy we get tragedy, when we want harmony we will get violence and so on.
We have to change it. We have to change our present life completely in the opposite direction. That alone will do us good.
Now, start chanting TOGETHER DIVINE for 10 minutes.