Read the blog, “Inside disturbance = Outside disturbance”
Whatever is happening outside, you should not bring it inside
You should observe your mind as a third person. How to do that?
Let us say, you are going to meet a person for an important matter.
Let us assume that the scheduled meeting is at 4.30 pm.
What will you do between 3.30 and 4.30 pm?
Whatever you want to discuss in the meeting, will get repeated in your mind –“I should do this; I should not say that” and so on.
However, at the meeting you will be simply become blank if you are not prepared for the meeting.
Interestingly, whether you get yourself prepared or not prepared, the result will be the same.
At 5.30 pm you will come out of the meeting.
After coming out, you will be thinking about the meeting that took place between 4.30 t0 5.30 p.m. You don’t do this too.
The principle is, whatever is outside do not bring it inside and whatever is inside do not take it outside.
What do you mean by “Whatever is inside do not take it outside”?
Whatever you have inside you have no control. If any two persons are quarrelling, we also get angry.
You observe simply whatever is happening outside. After a few seconds it will go off (from the mind).
When you are angry, you are holding on to that anger and that is why it is staying with you. We must learn how to observe that too.
Instead of observing if we react then it becomes our karma
Everything is the drama of the mind.
We have understood everything wrongly. There is nothing called as external factors.
We have to go inside our mind. With your own mind you are entering into the others’ territory.
We have to try to do these. For that the switch words TOGETHER DIVINE will work.
You will become level-headed
When you keep on chanting TOGETHER DIVINE, you will be balanced and level-headed.
Then only the mind will be under our control.
Why the mind is not in control?
One part of the mind wants to be in harmony and other part of the mind wants to be in conflict.
If you go to a movie we want everything in that movie like love, comedy, action etc.
Whatever you except in the movie you except the same in life also. But unfortunately when we want comedy we get tragedy, when we want harmony we will get violence and so on.
We have to change it. We have to change our present life completely in the opposite direction. That alone will do us good.
Now, start chanting TOGETHER DIVINE for 10 minutes.
What is the LIMIT of (SAHANSHILTA) TOLERANCE for the Person and what is the solution to cross such hurdles in life?
When kids don’t listen, husband does not agree, care for the family, when friends and relatives have wrong ideas? A person wants to have happy, healthy peaceful and honorable life to live?
If you think that happiness depends upon friends and relatives, you will never get.
This world has all people good and bad. All emotions like fear, anger sadness and worry are present within us. At the same time we have other emotions like peace, love, happiness, joy, calmness etc also within us.
If the same person can have both surviving emotions and evolving emotions at the same time, the outside world also can have good and bad people.
We should believe in co-existence. When we don’t like others because they are creating problem for us, we think they should not be in our vicinity.
This fear about them makes us forget our good qualities.
In the midst of fear, cultivate sympathy. When you don’t get love, give love. In this world nothing is imperfect. Everything is happening as it should.
If there is imperfection around us, we are trained to see imperfection only. Develop the attitude of gratitude thinking that everything is perfect. Always thank any event any person.
Sympathy, unconditional love and gratitude only can elevate us and only in evolved state we can get peace or happiness.
Same anger, same hatred and same fear will bring in the same people, same event and our life becomes a repetition of the past.
Break the past. Think differently. Then you can have a different future.
Chant “TOGETHER FORGIVE LOVE THANK BE DIVINE” 1000 times, of which 100 times over a glass of water.
Drink that water so that the body also is filled up with that energy of love!!!
After I attended your Bach flower class last week, I rushed home, as I had to take my one-month old son to the doctor. I left the mobile in the auto I boarded and did not realise that until I came back home from the doc – almost two hours later.
Reach for the concerned person(s)
I just chanted the word “REACH” but in my mind I thought my phone might not come back to me. I called my mobile from my wife’s number. First time no one picked it up. Then my wife tried and someone picked. I grabbed the phone and I asked for my phone. By then the auto driver had left the phone in a paan shop near the stand outside your class room. I went and thanked him. As per my wife’s advice gave him some money but he denied. I forced it into his pocket and re-thanked him again.
Reach out for the Goodies in the world
The word “REACH” has not only made me realise that I could get back my lost goodies, I was also happy to note I met three great human beings that day – the auto driver, the paan shop person and a petty shop person.
I thank these three great people, the divine force and you – whom I have been reintroduced in my life through Pushpa Maa, Boopathy, and Subash.
We are sometime so negative, and we always feel that only we are good and others are bad, which is due to our prolonged thoughts – pre-conceived notions.
I feel we have to work on them (pre-conceived notions) and use these tools – switch words, animal spirits, and Bach flowers to make merry in life.
Thank you for sharing the experience.
It is not because of “REACH” that you met good people. You were in the divine environment of (Bach) Flowers, which were there in your energy field. For divinity there is neither loss nor gain. It is these flowers, which were radiating through your aura.
How you were in Divine then? Chanting the names of flowers or discussion about flowers (by being in the Bach Flower Class) will keep you divine.
Best of Luck