Same character exhibited differently
Same poles repel each other.
If A is resisting B, or fighting, or in discord with B then we always say that both are opposite poles.
Is it TRUE OR FALSE?
It is false. The truth is they are the same poles. That is why they repel each other.
A is actively resisting B, while B is passively resisting.
One’s resistance is outward. The other’s resistance is inward – mental.
Mentally both are in the same poles. Repulsion is a state of mind, by which both don’t know why they are against each other.
Normally we sympathize with B, thinking that B is a victim and A is the persecutor.
They are mentally in the same state or resistance, and both of them are doing it without their knowing.
Take the opposite stance
One has to shift their stance and be in the opposite pole to attract him.
Who has to do that? It is the one who wants peace and harmony. When B wants harmony, he has to understand that,
The opposite pole of ANGER is FORGIVENESS.
The opposite pole of CRITICISM is PRAISE.
The opposite pole of RESISTANCE is ADJUST.
The opposite pole of PRIDE is THANKS (love).
The opposite pole of ARROGANCE is HUMILITY.
How to achieve the mental state for harmony?
BOW and CONCEDE to ADJUST and FORGIVE to PRAISE and THANK.
The mental state of thanks and forgiveness is the only way to be in the opposite pole to have harmony with the other person.There is no other route.
Keep the different parts of the mind TOGETHER and chant “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST PRAISE FORGIVE THANKS”.
Additionally, write “TOGETHER OIL HELP HOLE” to overcome the repulsion (OIL removes friction, while HOLE attracts).
When a person is resisting you…
If you watch your thoughts on a daily basis, you will understand that your thoughts – your mental state – are against the person who is disharmonious with you.
Every thought against the person, keeps you in the same plane – same pole – and you will never achieve what you want as long as you are in this state.
Regular introspection will help you find this.
When there is a stream of thoughts bombarding, counter them or stop the flow with “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST PRAISE FORGIVE THANKS”.
Once you decided to be in the opposite pole, you need not pathetically look for a change in the opposite person.
When change happens within you, when you have shifted yourself to the opposite pole 100%, then he will change (automatically). Till such time, he will keep on reminding you that you are in the same pole as he is.
Life is fundamentally management of Mind. It gives us lessons always.
The Power Life Symbol LOVE (66) will direct your state of mind towards a state of LOVE.
I was doing EFT but found it difficult in public and sometimes not working.
I asked the Universe to give me some easier solutions to my problems and I came through this website.
I get uncontrollable negative thoughts all throughout the day, either of the past or future and can never stay in the present.
I get unwanted thoughts about people, situations, and circumstances of the past or future.
If any new thing I have to do in the next moment, then I view it negatively first.
It is hard to believe but I get around a 100 thoughts per minute.
Chant the switch words, “CONCEDE CLEAR CANCEL DIVINE ON”
Concede Clear Cancel: to remove (CLEAR) the mental debris (unwanted stuff). This is good especially before going to sleep as it clears the mind from all worries (CANCEL). It happens when you surrender (CONCEDE)
On: to move on with life with the help of DIVINE (to find a bit of luck and help)
After I attended your Bach flower class last week, I rushed home, as I had to take my one-month old son to the doctor. I left the mobile in the auto I boarded and did not realise that until I came back home from the doc – almost two hours later.
Reach for the concerned person(s)
I just chanted the word “REACH” but in my mind I thought my phone might not come back to me. I called my mobile from my wife’s number. First time no one picked it up. Then my wife tried and someone picked. I grabbed the phone and I asked for my phone. By then the auto driver had left the phone in a paan shop near the stand outside your class room. I went and thanked him. As per my wife’s advice gave him some money but he denied. I forced it into his pocket and re-thanked him again.
Reach out for the Goodies in the world
The word “REACH” has not only made me realise that I could get back my lost goodies, I was also happy to note I met three great human beings that day – the auto driver, the paan shop person and a petty shop person.
I thank these three great people, the divine force and you – whom I have been reintroduced in my life through Pushpa Maa, Boopathy, and Subash.
We are sometime so negative, and we always feel that only we are good and others are bad, which is due to our prolonged thoughts – pre-conceived notions.
I feel we have to work on them (pre-conceived notions) and use these tools – switch words, animal spirits, and Bach flowers to make merry in life.
Thank you for sharing the experience.
It is not because of “REACH” that you met good people. You were in the divine environment of (Bach) Flowers, which were there in your energy field. For divinity there is neither loss nor gain. It is these flowers, which were radiating through your aura.
How you were in Divine then? Chanting the names of flowers or discussion about flowers (by being in the Bach Flower Class) will keep you divine.
Best of Luck