Same character exhibited differently
Same poles repel each other.
If A is resisting B, or fighting, or in discord with B then we always say that both are opposite poles.
Is it TRUE OR FALSE?
It is false. The truth is they are the same poles. That is why they repel each other.
A is actively resisting B, while B is passively resisting.
One’s resistance is outward. The other’s resistance is inward – mental.
Mentally both are in the same poles. Repulsion is a state of mind, by which both don’t know why they are against each other.
Normally we sympathize with B, thinking that B is a victim and A is the persecutor.
They are mentally in the same state or resistance, and both of them are doing it without their knowing.
Take the opposite stance
One has to shift their stance and be in the opposite pole to attract him.
Who has to do that? It is the one who wants peace and harmony. When B wants harmony, he has to understand that,
The opposite pole of ANGER is FORGIVENESS.
The opposite pole of CRITICISM is PRAISE.
The opposite pole of RESISTANCE is ADJUST.
The opposite pole of PRIDE is THANKS (love).
The opposite pole of ARROGANCE is HUMILITY.
How to achieve the mental state for harmony?
BOW and CONCEDE to ADJUST and FORGIVE to PRAISE and THANK.
The mental state of thanks and forgiveness is the only way to be in the opposite pole to have harmony with the other person.There is no other route.
Keep the different parts of the mind TOGETHER and chant “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST PRAISE FORGIVE THANKS”.
Additionally, write “TOGETHER OIL HELP HOLE” to overcome the repulsion (OIL removes friction, while HOLE attracts).
When a person is resisting you…
If you watch your thoughts on a daily basis, you will understand that your thoughts – your mental state – are against the person who is disharmonious with you.
Every thought against the person, keeps you in the same plane – same pole – and you will never achieve what you want as long as you are in this state.
Regular introspection will help you find this.
When there is a stream of thoughts bombarding, counter them or stop the flow with “TOGETHER BOW CONCEDE ADJUST PRAISE FORGIVE THANKS”.
Once you decided to be in the opposite pole, you need not pathetically look for a change in the opposite person.
When change happens within you, when you have shifted yourself to the opposite pole 100%, then he will change (automatically). Till such time, he will keep on reminding you that you are in the same pole as he is.
Life is fundamentally management of Mind. It gives us lessons always.
The Power Life Symbol LOVE (66) will direct your state of mind towards a state of LOVE.
I am not getting money from a person. Still now the idiot didn’t give me my money. I have chanted ‘FIND COUNT DIVINE MONEY’ also.
Thank the person for giving the money.
Your anger or resentment against him works against your receiving the money
Your thinking that he has cheated you will further attract persons who will cheat you.
Forgive that person.
By being obsessed of getting money from him, you are blocking your own receiving of money from other sources.
Geetha K L
I am working in a company and our company conducts tests and we need to clear the same which will be considered for the appraisal/promotion. There will be 3 attempts per year.
I am not able to clear in 3 attempts also in the previous year. This year I have got to clear it. Already I have taken 1st attempt and couldn’t clear.
There are 2 more attempts left. I am really frustrated.
You had told me to chant “ELM TOGETHER”. Will it be enough? I am scared to take exam thinking if I will again fail.
Doubts can spoil all our attempts. It is faith and faith alone that carries us forward.
Geetha K L
Thanks a lot for your advice.
I took today online exam and cleared. I chanted “ELM TOGETHER” daily and also wrote 100 times in book 4-5 days before exam.
I am really feeling very confident now.
Together: the switch word to nullify the internal resistance to pass the exam
Elm: the Bach Flower remedy to handle the task, which we consider too big and difficult to accomplish
What is the LIMIT of (SAHANSHILTA) TOLERANCE for the Person and what is the solution to cross such hurdles in life?
When kids don’t listen, husband does not agree, care for the family, when friends and relatives have wrong ideas? A person wants to have happy, healthy peaceful and honorable life to live?
If you think that happiness depends upon friends and relatives, you will never get.
This world has all people good and bad. All emotions like fear, anger sadness and worry are present within us. At the same time we have other emotions like peace, love, happiness, joy, calmness etc also within us.
If the same person can have both surviving emotions and evolving emotions at the same time, the outside world also can have good and bad people.
We should believe in co-existence. When we don’t like others because they are creating problem for us, we think they should not be in our vicinity.
This fear about them makes us forget our good qualities.
In the midst of fear, cultivate sympathy. When you don’t get love, give love. In this world nothing is imperfect. Everything is happening as it should.
If there is imperfection around us, we are trained to see imperfection only. Develop the attitude of gratitude thinking that everything is perfect. Always thank any event any person.
Sympathy, unconditional love and gratitude only can elevate us and only in evolved state we can get peace or happiness.
Same anger, same hatred and same fear will bring in the same people, same event and our life becomes a repetition of the past.
Break the past. Think differently. Then you can have a different future.
Chant “TOGETHER FORGIVE LOVE THANK BE DIVINE” 1000 times, of which 100 times over a glass of water.
Drink that water so that the body also is filled up with that energy of love!!!