Resolving conflict with your spouse

Rushrush

I’m writing this for the benefit of all who follow or about to enter the world of switch words….

I and my husband had a bad argument just yesterday and we parted ways with ego, none wanting to say sorry or accept our faults. It was bitter and hurtful. I’m sure it is same for him as well!

Soon after he left home, I simply started chanting TOGETHER DIVINE for my peace of mind, nothing else occurred to me at that point of time…..

By afternoon, I just picked up my phone, called up my hubby and pleaded sorry and suggested to make up. Divinity has its ways. We both apologized to each other and made up.

It was totally not expected because our fight and arguments were severe. It amazes me how chanting Together Divine changed my mind and his too!!! I still can’t believe that this could happen within hours of chanting. We had a wonderful evening hence…

It’s amazing how powerful these words can be…….!!!!

What made me call my hubby up despite my ego, what changed or directed my mind towards my highest good……it’s magical….TOGETHER DIVINE…..?

Thank you Naran!!!!

Naran

There is always a conflict between the separated self (our ego self) and the evolving self (original self).

This original self always wants to give love to evolve. For the evolving self, there are only two states – forgiveness to love, and gratitude.

For the ego self, its own survival is important. In other words the ego can survive if only it projects anger, vengeance and what not.

That is why it will not allow the evolving self to operate.

Switch words bypass the ego self and activate the evolving self.

Why does it not happen always?

It is because of the resistance of the concerned person to accept everyone as he is.

CHANGE for a Better Offer

Niru, July 24

I want to change my job in the same company that I am presently working.

These days, my desperation is for changing the department but not the organization is increasing a lot.

Naran, July 27

Chant “CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”

Niru, August 29

As told by you I am chanting “Change Divine Order” as many times as possible and also writing “MIMULUS, LARCH” 51 times in a notebook (honestly speaking not every day).

I got an offer from another department yesterday. The HR formalities are still pending. I am praying everything should go smoothly and I should do extremely well in the new position.

One thing I noticed after I started writing Mimulus and Larch in the notebook is that I have become more peaceful.

Instead of worrying about what will happen to my future continuously now, whenever such thought comes to my mind I immediately tell myself ‘There is a divine force that will take me in the right direction’. The only thing I need to do is keep faith and keep chanting and believe in God.

Thank you for giving me this peace of mind.

Naran, August 31

Continue writing.

Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”

Niru, September 20

I am glad to inform you that I got a job in another department in the same company. I am chanting as told by you and writing as well.

Now my aim is to do extremely well in my new role and grow in position.

I also need the strength to take care of my aged parents and my daughter. Please let me know what I should chant for continuous peace of mind and prosperity in life.

Thanks you for your guidance without which I would not have had peace at all.

Naran

Chant “ELM, OAK, OLIVE”

Explanation

Change, Divine Order and Together are switch words, while Mimulus, Larch, Elm, Oak and Olive are Bach Flower remedies

Change Divine Order: to change the situation to divine order

Larch: for low self-confidence and develop an ‘I CAN’ attitude.

Mimulus: fear of future about job

Together: to bring all the forces inside us to achieve our objective.

Elm, Oak and Olive: will provide both mental strength with smartness (required in office) and physical strength (to handle parents and daughter).