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Resolving conflict with your spouse
Rushrush
I’m writing this for the benefit of all who follow or about to enter the world of switch words….
I and my husband had a bad argument just yesterday and we parted ways with ego, none wanting to say sorry or accept our faults. It was bitter and hurtful. I’m sure it is same for him as well!
Soon after he left home, I simply started chanting TOGETHER DIVINE for my peace of mind, nothing else occurred to me at that point of time…..
By afternoon, I just picked up my phone, called up my hubby and pleaded sorry and suggested to make up. Divinity has its ways. We both apologized to each other and made up.
It was totally not expected because our fight and arguments were severe. It amazes me how chanting Together Divine changed my mind and his too!!! I still can’t believe that this could happen within hours of chanting. We had a wonderful evening hence…
It’s amazing how powerful these words can be…….!!!!
What made me call my hubby up despite my ego, what changed or directed my mind towards my highest good……it’s magical….TOGETHER DIVINE…..?
Thank you Naran!!!!
Naran
There is always a conflict between the separated self (our ego self) and the evolving self (original self).
This original self always wants to give love to evolve. For the evolving self, there are only two states – forgiveness to love, and gratitude.
For the ego self, its own survival is important. In other words the ego can survive if only it projects anger, vengeance and what not.
That is why it will not allow the evolving self to operate.
Switch words bypass the ego self and activate the evolving self.
Why does it not happen always?
It is because of the resistance of the concerned person to accept everyone as he is.
My husband has changed his behavior
Switch words “TOGETHER DIVINE” have worked out a better situation than the past that I had undergone. I used to chant them a minimum of 200 times and above that whenever I feel like.
My husband has changed his behavior.
In fact, to be more precise, my mental state has changed. I answer him patiently and calmly.
And he even understands the situations and behaves himself in a better way. I also got an appreciation of words on a weekend. Anyways, I am continuing to do so.
The only things that has not changed his alcohol intake. Though it has reduced his intake to a limit, but I am not sure.
Once again thanks for all your divine support.
Naran
Chanting and healing is not done to change others and control others.
What is the meaning of TOGETHER DIVINE? Let all parts of my mind unite with the Divine so that I become a silent observer of what is happening around me.
The more divinity fills up one’s consciousness, one changes mentally and one’s outlook changes too. One look from a higher perception and understand that every event is happening as per the divine order; every person in our life is as per the divine will; when Divine love changes me totally, the other person changes totally too.
Love can make Life. Judgment and expectation break life.
Best of luck
REACH for the Goodies
Uday
After I attended your Bach flower class last week, I rushed home, as I had to take my one-month old son to the doctor. I left the mobile in the auto I boarded and did not realise that until I came back home from the doc – almost two hours later.
Reach for the concerned person(s)
I just chanted the word “REACH” but in my mind I thought my phone might not come back to me. I called my mobile from my wife’s number. First time no one picked it up. Then my wife tried and someone picked. I grabbed the phone and I asked for my phone. By then the auto driver had left the phone in a paan shop near the stand outside your class room. I went and thanked him. As per my wife’s advice gave him some money but he denied. I forced it into his pocket and re-thanked him again.
Reach out for the Goodies in the world
The word “REACH” has not only made me realise that I could get back my lost goodies, I was also happy to note I met three great human beings that day – the auto driver, the paan shop person and a petty shop person.
I thank these three great people, the divine force and you – whom I have been reintroduced in my life through Pushpa Maa, Boopathy, and Subash.
Lessons Learned
We are sometime so negative, and we always feel that only we are good and others are bad, which is due to our prolonged thoughts – pre-conceived notions.
I feel we have to work on them (pre-conceived notions) and use these tools – switch words, animal spirits, and Bach flowers to make merry in life.
Naran
Thank you for sharing the experience.
It is not because of “REACH” that you met good people. You were in the divine environment of (Bach) Flowers, which were there in your energy field. For divinity there is neither loss nor gain. It is these flowers, which were radiating through your aura.
How you were in Divine then? Chanting the names of flowers or discussion about flowers (by being in the Bach Flower Class) will keep you divine.
Best of Luck
My life is taken care of!!!
Obstacle-FREE LIFE
If you go on chanting DIVINE ORDER, everything will fall into place smoothly, without any obstacles. Everything will fall into place the moment you start it.
As soon as you get up in the morning, chant ‘DIVINE ORDER’ about 100 times.
No more mess
When there is a mess – chaos, confusion, where we cannot say how to go about, then chant DIVINE ORDER.
If there is chaos and confusion in the task on hand, then you can chant DIVINE ORDER.
Fix a HAPPY MARRIAGE
When we want a marriage to be fixed, we can chant DIVINE ORDER. If you keep chanting divine order, then everything will fall into place, for example, one who does not have sufficient funds will find funds (for marriage). You can also start chanting Divine Order before searching for a bride/ bridegroom. It is useful to find the right bride/groom.
Do WELL in INTERVIEWS
What is the use of FIND? It is to become confident. When you go for an interview it should go smoothly, when you are traveling by train, it must run smoothly. Like this there are several things.
You can also chant FIND DIVINE ORDER. It means that the person becomes confident and then everything will fall into place.
TRAVEL SAFE
So when you chant FIND DIVINE ORDER, firstly, you will become confident. In addition, you will also be confident that nothing wrong will take place.
Secondly, we will reach the destination early.
So when you travel, FIND DIVINE ORDER will be a very useful mantra. It is a Travel Safe mantra.
Reach Your Destination ON TIME
When the flight is at 4 p.m. and a person may go to the airport at 2 p.m. itself. But the plane won’t arrive on time. It will come around 6 or 8 p.m. If you don’t want such things to happen then you have to chant FIND DIVINE ORDER.
JOB SAFE
When you are about to lose the job or an opportunity or ranking in promotion (where two or more persons are due for the same and competing for it), at that time how it will work we cannot say. We cannot come off that desire either, as we always have desires for which we cannot do anything about!!! At that time, we can chant FIND DIVINE ORDER. Then the chanting person may not lose the opportunity.
Find a liar
FIND also means unearthing or discover. Wherever somebody tells a lie, we can find it out. Chant FIND.
To discover a dishonest person, before and during the meeting, or when someone comes for seeing a bride, at such times the switch word FIND will be useful. You may also chant FIND DIVINE ORDER then.
All words work wonderfully well. Some words may not work also. That we should not worry. Our work is towards healing only and therefore, we should not bother about the results. If we keep this in mind then always it will work better for us.