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Resolving conflict with your spouse

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I’m writing this for the benefit of all who follow or about to enter the world of switch words….

I and my husband had a bad argument just yesterday and we parted ways with ego, none wanting to say sorry or accept our faults. It was bitter and hurtful. I’m sure it is same for him as well!

Soon after he left home, I simply started chanting TOGETHER DIVINE for my peace of mind, nothing else occurred to me at that point of time…..

By afternoon, I just picked up my phone, called up my hubby and pleaded sorry and suggested to make up. Divinity has its ways. We both apologized to each other and made up.

It was totally not expected because our fight and arguments were severe. It amazes me how chanting Together Divine changed my mind and his too!!! I still can’t believe that this could happen within hours of chanting. We had a wonderful evening hence…

It’s amazing how powerful these words can be…….!!!!

What made me call my hubby up despite my ego, what changed or directed my mind towards my highest good……it’s magical….TOGETHER DIVINE…..?

Thank you Naran!!!!

Naran

There is always a conflict between the separated self (our ego self) and the evolving self (original self).

This original self always wants to give love to evolve. For the evolving self, there are only two states – forgiveness to love, and gratitude.

For the ego self, its own survival is important. In other words the ego can survive if only it projects anger, vengeance and what not.

That is why it will not allow the evolving self to operate.

Switch words bypass the ego self and activate the evolving self.

Why does it not happen always?

It is because of the resistance of the concerned person to accept everyone as he is.

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Switch to Self-Care

Study CARE

CARE means to be careful. CARE will make the person study well, and observe well.

SLOW CARE is the switch word for children. You can make a big poster of SLOW CARE and paste it in the children’s room. Then he will study well. By this both concentration and memory will improve. CARE – will improve memory and SLOW – will improve concentration.

HOLD on to Good Behavior

For hyper active child, chant HOLD CONCEDE.  HOLD means restrict, and CONCEDE means surrender.

For children who do not listen to the parents, CONCEDE … (name of the child). HOLD also means going/moving in the right direction, orderliness in addition to restriction. So for such children, who do not listen to their parents, chant the name of child and say CONCEDE HOLD. If you want you can also add DIVINE to that combination (CONCEDE HOLD DIVINE).

CORAL for MORAL

To make a person moral, CONCEDE HOLD DIVINE CORAL. CORAL (gem stone) means moral. CORAL can be used as a switch word, meaning moral. If we use this word CORAL, the person will become 100% moral. No doubt about it. Even after doing this if that person does not become moral, let him not change. So, leave him alone.

De-Addiction

Even for bad habits this is very good and for addiction too. I told you restriction is the keyword for HOLD. It will also restrict any addiction. How many words we can add to this CONCEDE? Like CLEAR, HOLD, DIVINE (CONCEDE CLEAR HOLD DIVINE) and so on.

Job CARE

What is the other usage of this switch word in our lives? When you are ignored for promotion, or when you are denied promotion – chant TOGETHER CARE DIVINE.

Exam CARE

Some children will not get sufficient marks in the exams and so we go for revaluation. CARE DIVINE will be of useful in such life situations.

Mantra for Good Speech

Chant the mantra, OM VACHASPATHAYE NAMAHA, which will activate the Throat Chakra. Vachaspathaye means Guru. “I prostrate to the lord of speech” is the meaning of this mantra.

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