Resolving conflict with your spouse

Rushrush

I’m writing this for the benefit of all who follow or about to enter the world of switch words….

I and my husband had a bad argument just yesterday and we parted ways with ego, none wanting to say sorry or accept our faults. It was bitter and hurtful. I’m sure it is same for him as well!

Soon after he left home, I simply started chanting TOGETHER DIVINE for my peace of mind, nothing else occurred to me at that point of time…..

By afternoon, I just picked up my phone, called up my hubby and pleaded sorry and suggested to make up. Divinity has its ways. We both apologized to each other and made up.

It was totally not expected because our fight and arguments were severe. It amazes me how chanting Together Divine changed my mind and his too!!! I still can’t believe that this could happen within hours of chanting. We had a wonderful evening hence…

It’s amazing how powerful these words can be…….!!!!

What made me call my hubby up despite my ego, what changed or directed my mind towards my highest good……it’s magical….TOGETHER DIVINE…..?

Thank you Naran!!!!

Naran

There is always a conflict between the separated self (our ego self) and the evolving self (original self).

This original self always wants to give love to evolve. For the evolving self, there are only two states – forgiveness to love, and gratitude.

For the ego self, its own survival is important. In other words the ego can survive if only it projects anger, vengeance and what not.

That is why it will not allow the evolving self to operate.

Switch words bypass the ego self and activate the evolving self.

Why does it not happen always?

It is because of the resistance of the concerned person to accept everyone as he is.

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About Naran

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 11 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

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  1. So can we add release resistance with together divine?

  2. me too had the exact same experience as Rushrush had. Its not that v didnt fight after tat onwards, but on tat occasion i went and askd sorry frm my husbnd which i usually dont. I too actually chantd to get peace of mind and nt to resolve the fight. “Together divine” it really works

  3. Sir!
    Please guide me as always.my husband was laid off 6months ago and still not got any job offer.My present job is very stresful.please give some remedy to get better job for myself and also for husband.also my mental tesnions are at all time high.
    regards
    alamelu

  4. This worked for me today. I had to deliver some upsetting news to a superior of mine. She started to get very angry and wasn’t fully hearing what I had to say. So I started as per your advice under my breath while she was talking…she literally changed her tone in the middle of her speech. I want to note I had little to no faith in this process. To my surprise she took responsibility and handled the situation immediately. She even explained to me that she wasn’t blaming me and then told me a lovely story about her daughter. It was very subtle shift on her part but the contrast was too much not to notice.

    I am amazed.

    Thanks be to God for allowing me to remember this at the right moment.

  5. Sir, One of my family relative is saying a lot of lies to my mother in law and is showing a very good face to her. But the person is deceptive and says lots of lies to my mother in law and she is completely believing that person. I want that persons real face to come up in front of my mother in law that the person has been telling lies all the time. What switch words can I use in such a case? In general, how to we find a lying person and bring their real face out?

  6. my father is suffering from liver cancer, advanced stage. would you suggest something for him which will keep him stable both mentally and physically? thank you in advance.

  7. mithi,
    for mental stability
    HARI OM

  8. sir how many times to chant BOW CONCEDE PRAISE TOGETHER DIVINE, you suggested for some one in this pg for short temperdness

  9. pl also tell for abadance in money we have lots of debts we need to clear our loans n pledged jewellry, peace n harmony in the family

  10. sir kindly reply

  11. I joined 2 chits in my friend’s husband chit fund. I pledged my jewels and paid the chit He was supposed to repay the amount in 2011 itself but till now he didn;t repay. Whenever I ask he says that he will repay it later. I am suffering lot I could not pay interest for the pledged jewels. I want my friend’s husband to repay it within a month so that all my 50 percent of money problem will be solved. Please tell me what mantra to chant.

  12. hi sir this is sangeetha today i went to viva exam of my m.b.a. ( hr) i have answered all what ever sir asked me. but later know the examiner said u do have approved certificate in ur project reports and said we will fail in ur viva exam ,sir pls give me a switch word so that i should pass my theory and viva exam . today i was totally shock with the examiner behaviour plsssssssssssssssssssssss sir requesting you plsssssssss give me a switch words to pass my m.b.a hr final year both in theory and viva exam plsssssssss sir requesting u by holding ur legs sir plsssssssssssssss. help me

    • sir pls help me give me a switch words so that i vl pass in my m.b.a final year both in theory and project sir plssssssssss requesting you sir

  13. hi sir this is sangeetha sir pls sir reply me plsssssssssssss give a switchwords to my problem. sangeetha today i went to viva exam of my m.b.a. ( hr) i have answered all what ever sir asked me. but later know the examiner said u do have approved certificate in ur project reports and said we will fail in ur viva exam ,sir pls give me a switch word so that i should pass my theory and viva exam . today i was totally shock with the examiner behaviour plsssssssssssssssssssssss sir requesting you plsssssssss give me a switch words to pass my m.b.a hr final year both in theory and viva exam plsssssssss sir requesting u by holding ur legs sir plsssssssssssssss. help me

  14. hi sir this is sangeetha sir pls sir reply me plsssssssssssss give a switchwords to my problem. sangeetha today i went to viva exam of my m.b.a. ( hr) i have answered all what ever sir asked me. but later know the examiner said u do have approved certificate in ur project reports and said we will fail in ur viva exam ,sir pls give me a switch word so that i should pass my theory and viva exam . today i was totally shock with the examiner behaviour plsssssssssssssssssssssss sir requesting you plsssssssss give me a switch words to pass my m.b.a hr final year both in theory and viva exam plsssssssss sir requesting u by holding ur legs sir plsssssssssssssss. help me I SHOULD PASS IN MY MBA FINAL YEAR SIR PLSSSSSSSSSSSSS GIVE ME A SWITCH WORDS PLSSSSSSSSSSS

  15. sir pls help i should pass my mba plssssssss give me a switch word

  16. Keerthana Reddy

    Hello Sir,

    Me n my living separately now,we had 15 months boymy husband not coming to us and he did not see his son,he is planing for divorce and his mother,sister and father are encouraging him .all this is happend because of their involvement.Please help me i want my husband back to me and my son.Please help

  17. Keerthana Reddy

    Naran sir,

    Please help me on my above mentioned suitation problems.Pleaseeee….

  18. Dear Naran sir
    My mother in law and sister I law’s have encouraged and supported my husband to file divorce in 2010 and got it in 2017, but based on the evidences it was rejected in high court and got stay. Please help us in getting my husband back to me and daughter where he never looked back to us and started business in different countries to earn money on his mom’s desire. Please suggest a remedy to get back him and reunite with us as my daughter cries for his love every day. Kindly suggest switch words s we have restitution of conjugal rights on June 25.
    If money and male progeny is the ultimate why this earth needs female.

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