If somebody blames me, what should I do?
What is opposite of blame – it is praise and appreciation. So keep chanting PRAISE. The other person will start praising you. When you are being blamed or whenever you want appreciation, chant PRAISE.
In this world there is only one subconscious mind
PRAISE is one of the command words for subconscious mind. At the subconscious mind level there is no individuality. There is only one full of mind and that is the subconscious mind. So there is no difference between you and him. The switch words are a command for you and for the other person also.
Impossible to get appreciation from others…
If you feel it is impossible to get appreciation then chant PRAISE DIVINE.
Also you can chant TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE.
You can also add his name like, TOGETHER PRAISE DIVINE WITH … (Name of the person)