Resolving conflict with your spouse
I’m writing this for the benefit of all who follow or about to enter the world of switch words….
I and my husband had a bad argument just yesterday and we parted ways with ego, none wanting to say sorry or accept our faults. It was bitter and hurtful. I’m sure it is same for him as well!
Soon after he left home, I simply started chanting TOGETHER DIVINE for my peace of mind, nothing else occurred to me at that point of time…..
By afternoon, I just picked up my phone, called up my hubby and pleaded sorry and suggested to make up. Divinity has its ways. We both apologized to each other and made up.
It was totally not expected because our fight and arguments were severe. It amazes me how chanting Together Divine changed my mind and his too!!! I still can’t believe that this could happen within hours of chanting. We had a wonderful evening hence…
It’s amazing how powerful these words can be…….!!!!
What made me call my hubby up despite my ego, what changed or directed my mind towards my highest good……it’s magical….TOGETHER DIVINE…..?
Thank you Naran!!!!
There is always a conflict between the separated self (our ego self) and the evolving self (original self).
This original self always wants to give love to evolve. For the evolving self, there are only two states – forgiveness to love, and gratitude.
For the ego self, its own survival is important. In other words the ego can survive if only it projects anger, vengeance and what not.
That is why it will not allow the evolving self to operate.
Switch words bypass the ego self and activate the evolving self.
Why does it not happen always?
It is because of the resistance of the concerned person to accept everyone as he is.
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